What does your guy’s favorite sex position say about his personality? Let’s find out!
Doggy style says you like being in control
When you’re doing doggy style, you are giving yourself entirely to your partner. You take what you have into your hands and make sure that he gets what he wants. If you feel comfortable with him being behind you, then go for it! He may want more penetration or slower sex. How you position yourselves is up to you- there is no right way.
If doggy style makes you uncomfortable, try laying down. You can also sit on the floor if you prefer. There are many different positions available, so just pick one and let everyone know you’re not feeling safe or confident.
Maybe you want someone beside you or you don’t want anyone watching porny headboard (the name given to bed posts). Maybe you want people walking around or keep forgetting how to dance. These things are human nature and happen to every couple once in a while.
The most important thing about sex is communication and understanding. Everyone has their own preferences and ideas of what they want; why not tell each other them and work together towards what you want?
Side by side means commitment and love
Now, let’s talk about sex. Most men prefer to be in control. And if you want to know what he wants from life and relationships, look at where his comfort zone is.
He wants equality? He wants to feel powerful and strong enough to take care of himself. He wants to have faith in someone else being there for him when he needs them.
These aren’t bad things! But they are things that he will expect of you during sex.
If you don’t give yourself to him, then he can’t do his best to get you into a happy place. You need to pay attention to your feelings and make sure that you’re having fun and feeling comfortable.
At the same time, don’t worry about “hobbies” or how good you looked last night — these are minor issues compared to how you feel. If you’re not acting out sexually, you’re probably emotionally withholding.
Butterfly is about receiving
If you want to give your partner pleasure, this is the position for you. Your partner lies on their back while you lie on yours. You will hold them closely, with your legs spread wide.
Your partners may feel closed off from you at first, but after some time, they will start calling it their own. They can also see past your physical appearance and love how beautiful you are inside and out.
This position works well if one of you is more conservative or nervous around people, as the intimacy between you two is less emotional and more physical.
But don’t worry, there are shorter versions you can do. By positioning yourself above your partner (on either side or behind), you both can relax and enjoy each other’s bodies.
This version feels better because you are not using your legs-you are just holding on for dear life. This position allows for complete connection as you experience every sensation and feeling together.
The standard missionary position means he is a traditional guy
Believe it or not, there’s a right way and a wrong way to do most things in bed. And for many people, consent is one of the biggest factors behind sexual positions and routines.
But regardless of whether sex is consensual or not, the traditional missionary position has probably been going strong for around 40 years (that’s how long NASA says humans have walked on the moon).
However, new research suggests that this classic pose may be linked to a higher risk of heart disease. Scientists noticed an increased pressure on the arteries when men are lying down with their legs separated while women had more compression of blood vessels when sitting with their legs together.
In both cases, the pelvis was moving, but in opposite ways. When you lie down like you’re dead, your hips start pushing up into your rib cage, which can lead to all sorts of health issues.
When you sit between someone’s feet, they can get close to your face and neck, et cetera. Also, the extra stress on the veins and nerves prevents smooth functioning of the cardiovascular system.
That said, every body type needs its own special movement to move from stage to stage inside of intercourse. If you’re curious about other sex positions, make sure to try them out for yourself! They can bring even better pleasure than the ‘standard’ setting of straight-up sex.
Ride it out–it’s all about balance
Whether you like to be restrained or enjoy being tied up, there is a sex position that will fit you and your partner’s personality.
It’s been said that if two people find each other completely pleasing, it can lead to a sense of peace and tranquility. When you are with someone who makes you feel good, feels special, and loves and trusts you, it gives your life meaning and purpose.
According to science, this is because dopamine is our brain’s favorite drug. Dopamine sounds like something bad (too much “dope”), but in fact it’s one of the most important chemicals in your body.
It plays a role in mood regulation, sleep, sexual function, and more. In particular, higher levels of dopamine have been linked to feelings of bliss, joy, and contentment.
When you find yourself with someone who makes you happy, feeling loved and trusting him or her, your self-confidence goes up, and you feel better about yourself. This happiness also spreads to those around you.
When making love, try different things to see what works for both you and your partner. Don’t think twice about asking her what she likes best so that you can surprise her.
Also, don’t be afraid to say “no” to your girlfriend when she asks you something. She might ask you a question without really wanting to know how you feel.
Try having conversation sometimes that has nothing to do with sex. It could be all topics were talking about trust issues or anything before moving forward with decisions you make during these times.